Shree Mataji said:

They’ll be only impressed by your calm, sweet and compassionate nature, because this force is working through you can be seen. Not only on your face there is light, no doubt, but in your heart, there is light or not is to be seen and that light has to be welcomed, has to be asked to come in and this should be your prayer that let this dynamic force work through me.

Shree Devi Puja, Alibaug, 30.12.1988  (Speech on Amruta.org)